<p class="0"><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">안녕하세요</span></p><p class="0"><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">길고도 짧았던 </span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">10</span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">일</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">!</span></p><p class="0"><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">베스트맘 후기 시작합니다</span></p><p class="0"><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">첫째는 어땠는지</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">?</span></p><p class="0"><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">그 당시 보건소에서 추천해준 제일 유명하다던 업체를 이용했었는데요</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">. </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">모든 엄마들이 그렇듯 아이를 낳고나서 마주하는 문제들</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">... </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">하나부터 열까지 모르는 것 투성이였습니다</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">. </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">초보엄마의 마음으로는 모든 상황을 직접 겪어보며 제 스스로 고민하여 아이와 맞추어 나가고 싶었습니다</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">. </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">그 당시 와주셨던 관리사이모님께서도 물론 친절하셨고 좋으신 분이셨어요</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">.</span></p><p class="0"><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">친절히 저에게 이것저것 알려주셨지만</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">..</span></p><p class="0"><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">줏대없이 관리사님의 말씀에 휘둘리는 것이 싫었습니다</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">.</span></p><p class="0"><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">아이가 울면 다 나때문인 것 같아 괜히 주눅도 들고요</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">...</span></p><p class="0"><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">더군다나 조리원퇴소하자마자 하루하루가 멘붕이었는데 관리사님이 너</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">-</span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">무 수다스러우셔서 어린 마음에 쉬고싶다 말도 못하고 이야기 들어드리느라 곤욕이었습니다</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">. </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">결국 이틀만에 취소하고 그 누구의 도움도 받지 않겠노라</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">... </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">다짐했었답니다</span></p><p class="0"><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">그렇게 시간이 흘러갑니다</span></p><p class="0"><span style="font-family:함초롬바탕;mso-fareast-font-family:함초롬바탕;"><br></span></p><p class="0"><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">조리원 퇴소 후 계획</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">?</span></p><p class="0"><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">MBTI </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">선택적 </span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">J</span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">인 저는 출산 한달 전부터 출산 후 계획 고민에 빠지기 시작합니다</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">. </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">아니나다를까 첫째의 하계방학도 다가왔구요</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">. 7</span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">월 초가 예정일이었지만 의도치않게 제왕절개를 하게 된 저는 긍정적인 마음으로 생각했어요</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">.</span></p><p class="0"><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">‘</span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">그래</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">! </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">이왕 이렇게된거 원하는대로 계획을 세울 수 있겠다</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">‘ </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">그렇게 출산예정일에 맞춰 바로 계획을 세우게 됩니다</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">. </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">보통 조리원 퇴소하자마자 이모님을 바로 부르는데요</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">! </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">저는 아래의 보이는 일정과 같이 계획을 세웠습니다</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">.</span></p><p class="0"><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">이유는 첫째아이의 방학 때문이었습니다</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">.</span></p><p class="0"><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">+ </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">남편의 </span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">2</span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">박</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">3</span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">일 예비군 훈련까지</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">..</span></p><p class="0"><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">주부로서 육아를 하고 살림을 하면서 가장 어렵고 힘들고 하기 싫은게 삼시세끼 챙겨먹는거더라구요</span></p><p class="0"><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">조리원 퇴소하고도 산후도우미를 쓸지말지는 끝까지 고민했던 것 같아요</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">. </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">그래도 밥을 먹고는 살아야하니 관리사님의 도움받기로 마음먹고 업체예약할 때 미리 연락드리면서도 신신당부 드렸던 기억이 나네요</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">.</span></p><p class="0"><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">업체 선정 시에 가장 눈여겨본 점은</span></p><p class="0"><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">모유수유에 대해 잘 알고 있는가</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">? </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">였습니다</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">.</span></p><p class="0"><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">베스트맘은 모유수유의 중요성을 강조하고 있었어요</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">.</span></p><p class="0"><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">첫째도 모유수유를 했지만은 둘째는 또 다르더라구요</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">. </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">조리원에서도 제대로 알려주는 분이 없어서 혼자서는 아이와 맞춰나가기가 어려웠어요</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">. </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">그래서 더더욱 제대로 된 수유방법을 알고 수유텀을 지켜나가고 싶었죠</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">. </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">이모님께 도움받는 기간동안 잠만자고싶지는 않았거든요</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">.</span></p><p class="0"></p><p class="0"><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">(</span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">조리원에서도 수유콜 빼먹은 적 없는 일인</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">)</span></p><p class="0"><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">다른 업체도 마찬가지로 후기들 읽어보면 산모들이 실컷 쉬기만 했다는 이야기만 가득해서 별로 기대하지는 않았었어요</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">.</span></p><p class="0"></p><p class="0"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;"> </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">그러나 예상과는 다르게 모유수유에 대해 정확하게 짚어주셔서 좋았어요</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">! </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">아랫입술이 벌려져야 한다는 꿀팁도 알려주시고</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">, </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">배부르게 먹은 아이를 보며 칭찬해주시고</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">, </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">저에게 대단하다 격려해주시는 등 가장 많은 도움을 받았습니다</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">. </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">제일 고민이었던 점이 아이가 우는 이유는 무조건 배고파서인 줄 알았어요</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">. </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">그래서 울면 먹이기만 했어요</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">. </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">먹이기만 하니 자꾸 게워내고 트림못해서 답답하니 울더라구요</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">. </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">그걸 몰랐던 저는 쉬지도 못하고 먹이느라 지치고의 무한반복이었습니다</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">. </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">그런 저의 고민을 털어놓기도 전에 이모님께서는 수유 후에 트림을 확실히 시켜주셨어요</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">. </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">낑낑대면 안아서 트림시켜주시고</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">, </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">속이 불편하지 않도록 케어해주셨구요</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">. </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">그리고 다음 수유텀까지 푹 잘 수 있도록 해주시는 모습을 보고 크게 깨달았어요</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">.</span></p><p class="0"><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">수유 후 케어도 이렇게나 중요하단 사실을요</span></p><p class="0"><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">가장 기본적인 식사</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">, </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">빨래</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">, </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">청소는 기본으로 매일매일 해주셨어요</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">. </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">오시면 바로 옷 갈아입으시고 손씻고 아이들과 인사 나눠주시는 모습에도 괜히 좋았던 기억이 </span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">:)</span></p><p class="0"></p><p class="0"><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">심지어 첫째 아이 등원 때문에 며칠동안은 </span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">30</span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">분씩 일찍 와주셔서 너무나 감동</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">! </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">아침</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">, </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">점심밥 든든히 뚝딱 차려주시고 최소한의 재료로도 건강하고 배부르게 식사할 수 있었어요</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">. </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">제<span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">가 아침밥 먹는 동안 청소기 돌려주시고 바닥닦아주시기까지</span></span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">! </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">중간중간 소소한 대화들도 오고가며 하루를 시작했답니다</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">~ </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">아이가 자는 동안 이모님과 항상 티타임도 가졌었어요</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">. </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">하루 중에 제일 소중하고 행복했던 시간</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">:) </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">이모님과 수다떠느라 시간가는 줄도 모르고 하루를 보낸 듯 해요</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">~</span></p><p class="0"><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">둘째는 물론</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">,</span></p><p class="0"><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">첫째아이 케어까지 덤으로</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">~!</span></p><p class="0"><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">+ </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">든든한 내 편 이모님</span></p><p class="0"></p><p class="0"><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">날이 너무 더워서 나가지도 못하고 집에서만 놀아주느라 첫째도 저도 지쳤었는데 그때마다 이모님께서 바통터치 해주셨어요</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">. </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">동화책도 재미나게 읽어주시고</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">, </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">김밥말기 몸놀이도 해주시고</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">, </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">부엌놀이 등등 다양하게 놀아주셨어요</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">. </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">저는 되게 리액션 해주기가 힘들었는데 이모님께선 리액션도 풍부하시고 재미나게 놀아주셨어요</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">. </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">이모님 가시고나선 첫째가 </span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">“</span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">이모님 보고싶어</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">~” </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">라고 하더라구요</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">. </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">신생아 케어는 말해뭐해</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">! </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">저는 서비스 개시한 첫째날부터 이모님에게 모든 걸 맡기게 되었어요</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">. </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">아이들을 진심으로 사랑하시고 마음이 정말 따뜻한 분이신 걸 옆에서 온몸으로 느꼈답니다</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">. </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">식사랑 집안일만 잘 도와주셔도 감사합니다</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">~ </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">땡큐</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">! </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">였는데 말이죠</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">. </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">더군다나 </span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">10</span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">일간 이모님과 대화 나누며 저도 이모님처럼 멋진 어른으로 성장하고싶다는 생각이 들었어요</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">. </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">이모님을 만나게 된 건 제 인생에 아주 큰 행운이에요</span></p><p class="0"><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">인생 선배에게 배우는 이모저모</span></p><p class="0"><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">허구한 날 집청소한다고 여기저기 방 들쑤시는 사람</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">~</span></p><p class="0"><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">나야나</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">~</span></p><p class="0"><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">결혼과 동시에 육아를 하려니 살림에 있어선 정말 어렵고 하기싫더라구요</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">. </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">첫째 키울 때 누군가의 도움이라도 받았으면 주부로서 부지런히 움직이는 법을 배웠을텐데 그걸 못해서 아쉬웠던 찰나 이번 기회에 이모님 계실 때 첫째</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">, </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">둘째 케어하면서 집안일도 부지런히 해보자란 마음을 먹고있었죠</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">. </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">이모님께서 틈틈히 움직이시는 모습을 보고 배웠어요</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">. </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">그리구 아이들 봐주실 때 장난감 정리</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">, </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">수납정리</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">, </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">욕실정리 등등 부지런히도 정리하며 시간보냈네요</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">. </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">그러다 청소용품들을 마땅히 둘 곳이 없어서 이모님께 헬프요청을 했었는데요</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">. </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">얼마 안 있다 이모님께서 이것저것 재배치하시더니 청소용품 둘 곳을 만들어주셨어요</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">! </span></p><p class="0"><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">우와</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">~ </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">이마를 탁</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">~ </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">어떻게 이런 아이디어를</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">!</span></p><p class="0"><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">+ </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">아이가 낮엔 괜찮다가도 밤에는 많이 더웠는지 땀띠가 많이 올라왔었어요</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">. </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">밤에 분명 에어컨도 켜주고 선풍기도 틀어서 저는 자다가도 추웠는데 왜그럴까</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">~ </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">도저히 이유를 몰랐었어요</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">. </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">그러다 이모님께서 원목침대에 둘러쌓인 가드를 발견</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">! </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">그 시원한 바람이 가드에 막혀서 둘째한테는 못 갔다니</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">~ </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">가드 치우고는 얼마나 감탄했는지 몰라요</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">. </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">생각의 전환</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">. </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">이모님 아니었다면 가드 치워줄 생각은 절대 못했을거에요</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">~ </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">땀띠도 이모님께서 무진장 신경써주셔서 지금은 많이 좋아졌네요</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">!</span></p><p class="0"><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">남들처럼 결혼을 하고 아이를 낳았어도 주변에서 보고배울 사람이 없어서 정말 많이 힘들었어요</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">. (</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">물론 남편이랑 첫째랑 알콩달콩 행복했지만</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">..</span><span style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">그와는 별개로</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 9pt; letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">)</span></p><p class="0"><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">코로나 시절이라 조리원동기도 없지</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">~</span></p><p class="0"><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">비슷한 나이대인 아기엄마도 없지</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">~</span></p><p class="0"><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">동네친구도 없지</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">~</span></p><p class="0"><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">아무리 친해도 친구들과는 육아소통은 안되지</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">...</span></p><p class="0"><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">우<span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">울하기도 많이 우울했구요</span></span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">. </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">세상에 나만 동떨어져 있는거 같았어요</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">. ‘</span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">인생이랑 무엇일까</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">. </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">사는게 무엇일까</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">~’</span></p><p class="0"><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">별별 생각 다 해봤네요</span></p><p class="0"></p><p class="0"><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">나는 그저 나일 뿐인데 사람들의 시선엔 나이어린 아줌마로 보일거란 생각에 괜히 억울하기도 했어요</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">. </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">그런데 지금까지 애썼다 위로라도 해주듯 행운같이 이모님을 만나게 되었고 정말 많이 위로받았고</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">, </span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">행복했던 시간들이었습니다</span></p><p class="0"><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">저는 셋째 계획도 있는데요</span></p><p class="0"><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">셋째 때는 무조건 기간 길</span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">~</span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">게 </span><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">!</span></p><p class="0"><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">베스트맘을 고민없이 선택할 거 같아요</span></p><p class="0"><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0pt; font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">10</span><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">일간 행복을 선물해주신</span></p><p class="0"><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">관리사 이모님과 베스트맘에게</span></p><p class="0"><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">감사인사 드립니다</span></p><p class="0"><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;">긴 글 읽어주셔서 감사합니다</span></p><p class="0"> <!--[if !supportEmptyParas]--> <!--[endif]--> <o:p></o:p></p><p class="0"><span style="font-family: Gulim, 굴림, AppleGothic, sans-serif;"><br></span></p><p class="0"> <!--[if !supportEmptyParas]--> <!--[endif]--> <o:p></o:p></p>